As a follow up – we were dating – he dumped me, he then made contact once more 2 days afterwards as though we were friends & I responded asking for no contact until I was ready to make it. 6 weeks later it was his b’day at Xmas time, so I texted him & the contact followed up from there, with him continuing the contact – not me harassing him for it.
The city I now live in isn’t my hometown (moved here recently), so the being dumped last year was the wake up call for me to get busy with building a social life for myself, improve fitness (joined a gym) & get serious about setting roots down here. I’m in the process of viewing apartments to purchase, getting mortgage approval on a single income etc & all of the above is not only time consuming but also expensive. Dating right now isn’t a priority but will be further down the line once I feel like things aren’t so hectic & I’ve some personal goals achieved. So having regular comfortable good sex is pretty much a bonus for me right now! I’m figuring he’s of the same mind frame for his own reasons.
Frankly – I don’t want to commit to someone who dumped me via email or doesn’t think ‘I’m the one’ – I’m not going to pin my hopes on someone who’s already proved to be wishy washy with their feelings. Having said that – we are best friends. We talk daily – via email & on the phone. We’ve been seeing each other each weekend for months. The pregnancy scare was a freakout for me (I had a blood test done to confirm either way very quickly) as I’ve never been late nor had a scare & realised that at this stage I don’t want to be a single parent or even have children at all. We discussed the options & came to an agreement but since then he’s been acting closer – initiating kissing / closeness etc. We went on a weekend trip away to go hiking after the scare & got along great – no awkwardness etc. It’s not exactly the typical behaviour of someone who’s just in it for a casual shag.
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